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How to Be More Confident

How to Be More Confident

One of the comments people say to me is "you seem so confident."  And I've heard other people remark about other women, "She has a confidence about her, that's what makes her successful."  As women, we hear this a lot and it's true.  You do need a certain amount of confidence in order to gain success. 

As women, confidence seems more like a luxury item rather than a standard.  It's something that is only for the "chosen" and not for the rest of the people.  But that's mostly due to our conditioning from our environment.  It's not something you are just born with necessarily, but is learned.  Many of us have learned to stifle our greatness or make ourselves shrink to be smaller.  Because of that we are not taught how to be confident.   

Women Who Hate On Other Women's Success

Women Who Hate On Other Women's Success

I recently had a talk with one of my clients.  She is a strong and confident woman, especially how she shows up on social media. She inspires people and has written really compelling content.  She is vulnerable and raw at times and it can be hard to read, I’ll admit. But with each stretch in her being a woman, she has started to have success.

And that is what has offended people, apparently.

3 Hacks to Get Out of a Negative Spiral

3 Hacks to Get Out of a Negative Spiral

Do you ever have one of those days (hopefully not weeks) where nothing you seem to do works for you?  You try one road and you get the door slammed in your face.  And because you’re a tenacious person, you keep moving forward and try another avenue.  But still the same thing happens, you get no traction.  So you keep trying and but no one seems to notice all your efforts to get ahead or do more.  Whether it’s your job, your “fresh new attitude”, or just trying to create momentum in your business, all your effort doesn’t seem to have much return.  “The wind is knocked out of your sails", you feel dejected, and basically like nothing you do is working.